spring clean your life, advice for singles

Time To Let The Fresh air in your Life

Pay attention men! This doesn’t just apply to ladies!

I’m sure most of you have forgotten your New Year’s resolutions. Maybe it was something silly like “I swear I won’t put my garbage in my neighbors can,” but maybe it was meaningful.  You might have decided to lose a little weight, or quit smoking. January has come and gone, but I’d be willing to bet your resolution hasn’t been resolved. Let’s get that enthusiasm back on track! I’m not saying you should go vegan and chuck out those killer leather platform shoes, but revisit that goal and give it another shot!

No matter where you call home, be it the mountains, or the wind chapped plains, winter is tough on your skin! Once again guys, pay attention! Now ladies you don’t have to fork over a small fortune for silky smooth skin, and guys you don’t have to endure the daunting skin care aisle. There are plenty of remedies that you can do right at home without breaking the bank. This is one of my favorite simple recipes.

Exfoliation Salt Scrub - Ingredients:

  • Sea Salt(which you can easily find at the grocery store)
  • Oil Base (I find good old virgin olive oil to work best but coconut oil and sunflower seed oil are also acceptable)
  • Essential Oil (now guys you don’t have to use this, but you’d be surprised how pleasant and non-flowery smelling some types are)
  • You follow the simple one part oil base to two parts salt ratio. Using a small container, like a mason jar or even a simple plastic container works just fine, add one cup of your salt. Next add a half of a cup of your oil base. If you’ve chosen to add an essential oil you can do so now. A few drops should do the trick. Mix gently and don’t freak out if the salt settles to the bottom. That’s to be expected.
  • Now to scrub off your winter “coat” you’ll find that using your mixture on dry skin gives you the best result. You can use your hands to work it into the rough spots like elbows, heels, and knees. I’ve found that using a washcloth on your softer skin like you’re neck and face will leave you silky but not overly buffed.


Spring is also a great time to give your insides a little cleaning as well.

You don’t have to go nuts and grab the latest celebrity cleanse diet. Just check out the fresh seasonal produce. Eating healthy doesn’t mean you have to deprive yourself, or eat “rabbit food” guys. Farmer’s markets are a wonderful place to see not only what spring has to offer, but it’s also a great place to find out how to prepare some veggies you might not have ever tried. Sure it can be a little scary to bring home some goodies that you can’t even pronounce. Let’s face it though folks, canned green beans aren’t exactly broadening your palates horizon. Give your poor body a break and do a little spring cleaning.

Once the weather warms up spend a little time outside.

You might live in the big city, but smog aside, a little one on one time with the sun is actually good for you. Granted you do take the proper precautions. Sunscreen is your friend. Looking like a vintage leather purse is not! Studies show that sunshine makes us feel good.  Sunlight tells your body to wake up. Literally! It tells your body to stop producing melatonin, which is the natural chemical your body produces to make you sleepy. So throw open those blinds, grab your shades, and maybe walk the extra block to that “other” Starbucks.

I know I said we weren’t going to herd those pesky dust bunnies, but we don’t have to go Rambo style into a cleaning mission.

Seriously though, this is a good time to get rid of some personal “junk”. Ladies do you still have pictures of your ex taking up space? Lose them. Or at the very least box them up. Guys, if at some point an ex decorated your living space, this would be the time to reclaim it. Now is the perfect time to donate, relocate, or chuck those weird candles and that abstract cat painting.  Not to mention this can keep potential new dates from ever laying eyes on that suspiciously floral throw rug. This doesn’t just apply to singles. Couples can get in on the unclutter bandwagon too! If you are unlucky enough to share closet space with your other half it’s time to tame it. I’ll make it easy for you.

  • Take every last thing out. Even if you know you’re going to put something right back. Take it out.
  • Give your closet a good look. Check and see if all the shelves and racks are still secure. You don’t have to be carpenter to tighten a screw or adjust a few bolts.
  • Now before you put a single thing back take a good hard look at your treasures. Both you and your other half should make four piles: Keep, discard, donate, and relocate.
  • You might be thinking, “If I had somewhere to relocate this stuff, I would have already done it.” Well I’ll tell you how I took the bulk out of my closet that I begrudgingly share. I found some inexpensive storage ottomans. I keep seasonal clothes in them and actually found that they are pretty useful around the house.
  • Finally you’re ready to put your goodies back. Bet you’ll be surprised at how much more room you have! See a little spring cleaning didn't hurt that much!
I’ll be the first to say that I am domestically challenged.

I’m no cleaning wizard, and I’m sure many of you can relate. I will say this though, these tips aren’t too daunting. As a matter of fact they’re pretty simple. I like simple, but I especially like simply effective. Give them a try, or at the very least get rid of that rug your ex bought. You won’t be sorry. Try a little spring cleaning in your life.




  1. elizabeth

    April 29, 2012 at 11:21 pm

    We Could all use a little spring cleaning in our life! I’m trying the Face scrub for sure!

  2. Barbara Peters

    April 30, 2012 at 1:26 am

    I like the sound of this! If I could just get some one to tale over my closet cleaning for me! The dace scrum souns wonderful. I’ll have to try this.

    • Lawrence

      April 30, 2012 at 7:33 am


      I will gladly help you. I will clean your closet, it you scrub my floors


      • datingdiva61

        April 30, 2012 at 8:26 am

        LOL You would get the worse end of that deal I promise!!

    • datingdiva61

      April 30, 2012 at 8:26 am

      Ot is wonderful.. and smells so good!

    • datingdiva61

      May 11, 2012 at 9:40 pm

      lol Thanks.. I love the scrub !! Pretty awesome !

  3. Lawrence

    April 30, 2012 at 7:36 am

    You remember my post on spring cleaning? http://killmenow.org/spring-cleaning/

  4. Sherie

    July 11, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    Elizabeth, I have just spent the last two weekends spring cleaning our basement and my son’s room and is it ever a freeing feeling to get rid of all that junk! Love this post, the exfoliation recipe (I want to try that!) looks awesome! Fabulous post!!

    • datingdiva61

      July 29, 2012 at 8:46 pm

      Let me know if you do.. it would be awesome to have you tell me what you think..;)!

  5. Kim Garst

    July 11, 2012 at 2:36 pm

    GREAT tip and one I had not even considered…the sea salt ingredient is a stroke of genuis!

  6. Linda Jo Jenkins

    July 11, 2012 at 6:16 pm

    such wonderful tips! and so needing them right now–thank you for sharing your knowledge!

  7. Olga Hermans

    July 11, 2012 at 7:34 pm

    My mom used to take our whole house apart and clean every little corner; I am ot so much that way. But I like to do some spring cleaning in my closet and clean all the cubboards and stuff. PLus, I am going to do your facescrub for sure; I like things like that!!

  8. Lorii Abela

    July 11, 2012 at 10:46 pm

    Great tips Liz. And love the exfoliation salt scrub ingredients.

  9. Edmund Lee

    July 12, 2012 at 12:26 am

    Time to do a little SPRING CLEANING!! … and I love the silly resolution about not putting my garbage in my neighbors can =p

  10. denny hagel

    July 12, 2012 at 9:34 pm

    Great tips! Your face scrub sounds amazing! Great idea!:)

  11. Theresa Cifali

    July 14, 2012 at 9:35 pm

    HA! Great post. Once I get into a cleaning frenzy…stand back! I always find that I feel so uplifted after a purging. I also love the recipe for the scrub. I’m definitely going to be trying that one.

  12. Michael McDonald

    July 17, 2012 at 12:11 am

    I could definitely use the cleaning and emptying in the house. Skin care is a possible at some point but ya know…I’m a guy and stuff.

  13. Becky Fisher

    July 17, 2012 at 2:50 pm

    Love the salt scrub recipe! I refuse to buy the ones in the stores. I try to use natural stuff like that as much as possible. I even moisturize with coconut oil with essential oils mixed in. Love it!

    • datingdiva61

      July 29, 2012 at 8:47 pm

      Awesome Becky! I love oils and the way they feel and smell!

  14. Jennifer

    July 25, 2012 at 6:35 am

    Thanks, great article and great timing. I will feel like a whole new woman if I can find the time for all of this!

    • datingdiva61

      July 29, 2012 at 8:49 pm

      it will ..;) Do the face scrub.. and donate some things you no longer use!


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